Confusing Guitars With Guitarists.
July 18, 2008
I was relaxing one evening and watching a Bon Jovi concert on TV. The guitar solo Richie Sambora suddenly unleashed had the audience mesmerized. He is a master guitarist. He has mastered his trade through countless hours of practice, exploration and most of all, passion.
There are a lot of people who admire how Richie Sambora plays. He played a Fender guitar which many would buy at the nearest Guitar World. Or you could get his original guitar at Rock Star Guitar, a website of original artists’ guitars. People buy the guitar to identify with the great guitarist they uphold.
It even bleeds over into an illusion – “If I buy this guitar, it makes me a great guitarist.” Now that may be more subconscious than apparent for the average person. My question is why spend hundreds of dollars on a Richie Sambora guitar? Why not take the money and invest it into expert guitar lessons? Read more
999 Ways to Success
June 12, 2008
I have spent the last week working with my team on various systems we are implementing for our clients. The process is rigorous yet fulfilling. I enjoy it greatly because it embodies what our culture and message is about – passion.
We always believe there is an answer to problems. When we try daring things, we inherently will face a proportional amount of problems. We say, bring it on. Each solved problem separates us from our competition. It is what the same mentality Thomas Edison had when answering a person who wondered if he was frustrated about a thousand failed light bulb experiments. Read more
When Preparation Meets Opportunity
June 5, 2008
In our last ezine article we wrote about how to outlast your competition. Some of our readers found a discretionary point in the content. The idea of luck may or may not resound with you. Let me take this opportunity to talk about the idea of luck.
I share the same definition as Oprah on this one: “Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.” Some people believe it is all preparation; others believe it is all about opportunity. I think it is the convergence of both.
It is likely that you missed a lot of opportunities in the last 30 days because you were not prepared to take advantage of them. It is also likely that you have prepared and may have had a “build it and they will come” mentality. The problem is, you may have built it for the wrong opportunity. Read more
Outlast Your Adversity
May 14, 2008
I recently reconnected with an old college teammate to recall a running route which punished us each Sunday morning during cross-country season. I ran throughout college as a distance runner in an intensive program in upstate New York. I can remember running over 45 miles in three days and wondering if I was going to simply break like a toothpick.
On Sunday mornings after grueling races the day before, we would faithfully head out at 7 AM on our 17 mile Ellison Park runs. We sounded like a graceful stampede in rhythm running along waterways and into small towns. Some mornings, I relied heavily on my teammates just to pull me through the workouts. Showers and brunch at 9:30 AM started our days. The majority of the campus was still in bed. We were just trying to recover enough to do our 4:40 mile repeats the next day. Read more
Test the Welcome Mat
May 5, 2008
One of the best ways to know for sure if customers really count is to evaluate how an organization deals with complaints. At one of our Dream Retreats, we learned from a participant whose daughter manages a Limited, Inc. store location in Arizona that the company will dismiss a store manager who receives three unresolved customer complaints.
At first, we were somewhat taken aback by the severity of this practice, but after a little research into the effects of customer complaints on the bottom line, we realized that the policy makes very good sense. The Technical Assistance Research Programs Corporation of Washington, D.C., which publishes statistics on customer complaints, has found that for every customer complaint that an organization receives, there are 26 other dissatisfied customers who will remain silent. Each of the 27 dissatisfied customers will tell 8 to 16 others about the experience, and 10 percent will tell more than 20 other potential customers. If you do the arithmetic, you will find that three complaints translate into more than 1,000 potential customers hearing about poor service a company provided. No company can afford to drag its feet when handling customer complaints.
We have been wowed many times by Disney’s exceptional attention to guest problems and complaints. One example occurred when we were visiting Disney World with a group of clients.
After we had all checked into the hotel, we quickly departed for dinner. As we were riding along in one of the in-park buses that shuttle visitors around Disney World, the driver asked us how our rooms were. One of our clients mentioned that the faucet in his bar sink had an annoying drip, and he added taht he hadn’t had time yet to report it to maintenance.
“Sir, I’ll take care of it for you,” the driver assured him.
We didn’t give it another thought, but when we got back from dinner about 10 o’clock, the faucet was fixed. And then, more impressive yet, shortly thereafter the driver showed up on his own time to make sure that the problem had been taken care of. This is the level of service you should aim for when you ask your employees to treat every customer like a guest in their own homes. The bus driver was truly committed to making the guest experience the best it could possibly be. That is service with a capital “S.”
— Obtained from the book, The Disney Way by Bill Capodagli and Lynn Jackson
Winning: Prove You Care
May 5, 2008
The pursuit of excellent service as an owner of a business or a consumer seems to be an elusive goal. In my time with business people, this topic is difficult work. It requires thinking in the place of the customer. What do your customers want in the area of service? First and foremost, your customer is thinking about themselves, not you. As a consumer, you think the same way with the vendors who service you. What is it we all want when we give our cash to a business? We want to know they care. Their service is one means they show this. How they position and create an experience is another way they can show they care. Have you ever walked into a business and felt the owners were seeking how little they could give for your business? They are thinking about themselves also, to their own detriment. They lose.
Here is what the business person who shows care looks like: Read more
Does Perfect Planning Make Life Perfect?
April 21, 2008
It is really difficult to meet someone who has had a linear, planned out, perfect life, much less a predictable planned week. The number of variables to manage are too vast. The accident you did not plan for happened. The new competitor who got to market faster was not on the roadmap. Reality did not play out according to the financial plan or family budget that was meticulously engineered. Read more
Nobody Told Them They Can’t
November 23, 2007
ABC’s 20/20 highlighted what is happening in the new economy in their documentaries on Winning. I am seeing the leveling of the playing field daily in the business coaching we do with entrepreneurs and sales professionals. Anyone who is willing to fail can win in this economy. The barriers to go make something happen are so low. Be sure to watch the documentary and note the attitude of the young people and their journey to success.
Everything in our system worked against them. People told them they couldn’t. For some, their products lacked any value to others. They had to overcome their own lack of belief at times. They all worked very hard and persevered, several through financial obstacles.
It is always the same story. The funny thing about celebrity worship in our country is that they all take the unconventional path. They are willing to fail and still do. “I would be failing if I weren’t trying,” said one successful entrepreneur. It is who they are. The onlookers who are enamored by what they have achieved could do the same thing. However, two things keep them as observers and not players:
- Hard Work
- Belief
I rarely run across a person who has both. If you do, we should talk.
Solving Problems
November 7, 2007
One of the key ways to find out if you are a winner is to observe how you attack problems. The mass of humanity is addicted to comfort. They make excuses or blame others in solving problems. It does not matter whether the problems are business, financial, relational, health, working hard or anything else that causes us to think, act, or decide. The bigger and more complex the problems you solve indicate your leadership and inevitable ability to win. Life is one giant problem. Things do not go the way we plan or desire ever.
Two words that are key to anyone’s success that few people are able to do: HARD WORK. The other two words are KNOW HOW. Without these as part of your approach to life, you are merely selling, conning and positioning to get the benefits winners effuse without paying the price. Thus, you are in that mode Thoreau lamented: a “life of quiet desperation.” Start adding value and get out of your laziness, lest your life be built on compromise, desperation and scavenging.
Reward Only Please
February 24, 2007
Pursuing your passion is a dangerous venture. It usually requires a determination to break from the gravity of self-imposed fear and doubts. It also means dealing with the the critics. Pioneer new ground and you will see them appear out of the woodwork. However, the true winner knows these forces of adversity will come with the territory.
I find myself in a lot of coaching conversations dealing at the crossroads of a person’s belief system. Every one of us has an internal slope of risk. It can be tilted in a variety of ways. Some have their slope at a steep incline with more risk and in turn enjoy more reward. Others have a flat line. “Give me a guarantee of pay or time in exchange for my freedom.”
If you are a risk taker, beware. There is a crowd of subtle opportunists awaiting you as well. As you take more risks, there are those that will recognize and admire your reconnaissance. In fact, in their fear they can even live vicariously and exploit you. You can bear their risk while they get the reward. Whether you want that or not is up to you. However, it is important to recognize and see the pursuits of your life with eyes wide open. If you are a giver and willing to give the rewards of your personal risk freely to those that do not pay the price, then that can be both noble and dangerous. Noble in the fact that you exemplify giving. Dangerous in that you are on the path to resentment. In effect you become the fabled golden goose that has long coattails for any freeloader to ride.
My encouragement is seek to win and be a giver. Keep the heart soft but the mind clear. Be a business person with heart and a clear head. Recognize the risks you take. Recognize the reward also and how it is distributed. Seek for fair. Be mindful of the takers in life as well as the winners. They both show very different character. I cheer you on in your growth and your desire to make a difference.



